Who Are We Really?

Who Are We Really? Are We Truly Free?

Note: The reason for this article is to offer a human perspective, and one based on personal experience, something that science does not tend to want to hear!

Throughout our lives, we are shown or told how we shall live and contribute to society.  How we shall act, be and interact with others, as well as so many definitions and opinions from our peers.  Having observed and lived in a unique way, I have gathered a great deal of insight to the topic of abandonment.  In order to gain further knowledge and wisdom, we learn from our life experiences, which no amount of education can prepare us for.

Looking backward at all life’s amazing encounters, there is a clear issue in today’s society and one that is focused on material needs and wants.  Focusing on demands is the norm for the way in which we are supposed to live.  In essence, these are demands placed not only on ourselves but also expectations of others towards us. In other words, the focus is always on things outside of us and our own natural basic requirements, which in effect causes an imbalance.

Our relationships with others are crucial to our life lessons and learnings, and there eventually comes a point when these are tested.  Because we are born into an illusion that is based on others perceptions, it is inherent that we will adopt this same conditioning.  We often read about lifting the veils of illusion, but the use of the word illusion is misconstrued.  The reality of each of our lives is distorted in some way, it has to be until we recognise the illusion of our own life.

Psychology plays an important foundation for our lives, and this all begins from a young age, even before we are born.  A fetus is very much alive; feeling in so many ways as it grows to form a living being.  Whatever the mother is going through will be transferred in some way to the unborn child. Whilst science may disagree with this view for whatever reasons, it seems a logical view to take, as a starting point.

So, from a very early age, everything we feel is stored deep in our consciousness so that it may serve us later in life.  Most of us know how stressful it is when a new child is created, let alone the events that happen after the birth.  This perhaps explains why so few have little or no memory of their early months, days or even years.  It has been stored deeply in a safe place, waiting to come to the surface, when necessary.

Love Is All Creation

A child is predominantly created when two individuals are in a loving relationship, therefore the basis of the creation is love.  Taking this as a foundation, the essence is transferred to the masculine and feminine elements.  As the fusion takes place between the egg and sperm, the love essence shall begin to grow, to form the embryo.  Love continues to grow within the fetus and the cycle continues, for nine months. Voila, a child is born in love, which is innocent and pure, it is at this moment we begin to „brand“ the child, with a name, nationality, and religion.

The beginning of our lives, therefore, is immediately labeled.  In essence, we are not born totally free, which is our birthright, we become inadvertently part of societies self-created illusion.  We are born into an illusion, that is based on our parents, their parents, and generations before us.  This is how it shall be according to society, and how it has always been – but we know instinctively that this is not true.  It can not be true, as things such as birth certificates, identity documents, and passports, are all modern day creations of man.

Land borders have been created through battles, disputes, and far more devastating acts of violence and war.  But what has driven this tremendous travesty?  Man’s quest for control or greed?  Where did the spirit of community disappear? The reality of modern day man seems to be all based on fear, which in so many ways ensures that love is suppressed. It is this illusion many are realising now, and it has taken tremendous pain and suffering for us to achieve this.

Abandonment is a common cause for relationships to buckle and strain, or to completely break down.  It is this aspect that has perhaps we don’t fully understand, as we search for reasons for our suffering.  It all stems back to the expectations placed by others, as well as the demands we place on our self.  Based on what we have been shown or taught by our peers, the focus is on being able to produce something of monetary value.  This is essentially the be all and end all of our purpose on this planet according to society.

As we see the demand, which is a low vibrational energy, can only have one possible effect; more low vibrations.  This is far more apparent especially when someone has had traumatic encounters throughout their life.  I believe in a lot of cases, this can even stem back to the fetus growing in the womb, especially if the mother also encountered stress or trauma. Transfer of trauma is a common issue prevalent throughout the world today, and much more effort is necessary to understand it.

Quest To Satisfy Society – Leads To Abandonment?

Fully equipped with all the illusions, templates and societies expectations we enter into relationships full of love and openness.  The desire to share our lives with someone that stimulates us in a combination of ways. Our experiences and psyche guide us, but there comes a point when these relationships can become toxic.  On our quest to meet all the requirements of society, ticking the boxes on the way, many find themselves in the scenario the relationship begins to crumble.

We rely on what we have learned or remember to address the issues, but these are all based on a templating or expectation that is an illusion. The relationship breaks down, as communication between the two is fraught with differing views of how it should be.  Yet, we are doing everything expected of us.  We are working hard, too hard, to create an income, to provide for our family, and children.  We pay our bills and taxes as well as everything else “expected“, but yet the relationship breaks.

So, at this time we can take a closer look at what the hell happened, and where did it come from.  We shall look at our own actions, not those of the other person.  If we analyze what the other person may or may not have been thinking or doing, we again focus on something outside of our self.  There is no need to speculate on others, it is time for the microscope of self.  I know, I have done this, and it simply is a waste of energy that just continues in a never-ending circle.

On my own quest to meet my own relationship requirements, despite ticking all the boxes, (being an amazing father, an incredible lover and great visionary) I had followed an illusion that I had created from a very young age.  Yes, it was my illusion, but that is not to say what was created is an illusion.

The intentions of being a father, lover, husband, provider, caregiver etc were always on a genuine desire and higher goal, to be the best I could be.  The more I took responsibility for, the harder I had to work – the bigger the dream required the income to match.  I had lost touch with my true calling and soul essence and focused on the perceived need to provide.

What I have come to realise is that effectively I abandoned my partner and son, as well as myself.  I made conscious decisions that placed the relationship in jeopardy, putting others before myself and them.  I was chasing a dream of earning the financial abundance, so that we may one day realise the dream of creating a loving home in the countryside.  The intention was genuine, but the devil is always in the detail.

Chasing wealth also brought tremendous anxieties and stresses on me personally, which of course transferred to the relationship.  Communication was necessary, but the actions and words did not solve the situation.  It leads to a fundamental collapse to the illusion I had created, much the same as it will to most of us!  I abandoned those that I love, as well as my own soul on a quest to creating financial abundance.

No Regrets Only Life Lessons

We can not regret what has happened in our lives, we can embrace everything and merge it together so we can create something new.  Recognising all that we have done, acknowledging it and being at peace with it is crucial.  There can be no anger or blame.  Shit happens as they say!  We can only learn and allow all that we have done to be the university of life.  These real lessons of life can only be good, no matter what we go through.  Going to the deepest places of ourselves, allows us to truly appreciate what we have accomplished.

In conclusion, to be truly free, we shall follow our own heart and soul, as well as communicate in a deep and meaningful way.  Community begins with our true authentic self and just grows from there.  Viewing everything from a higher perspective, and our own highest good, can only lead to incredible things.  Yes, for the majority, it takes a massive life-changing event to trigger this, yet so few take the time to get to really break the illusion, because of the aforementioned expectations.

We each have the power to break the cycles of our own creation and be the love we have always been. Shattering all expectations to just being in the moment is a transformation, and is one that will continue for the remainder of our earthly life.  Knowing that our core is love, allows us to simply be love.  A deeper connection with our core, and with others, leads to an amazing transformation of all that within our microcosmos.

There are many unexplained connections still present that will remain that way.  We as a species do not need all the answers to live our lives because we are the answer.  Nothing outside of us is responsible for our life journey, it is and always has been in our hands.  We co-create where we are going, and with whom. Some are privileged to have encountered the One who has shaken us to our core; that essence will never leave us. Unconditional love has been reignited deep within, and we can finally appreciate it.

We will carry this essence with a new quest that is far more precious and rewarding than our previous ones.  We now share with one and all, true unconditional love.  This is our only mission, whatever is necessary for us to do this will be provided for on our journey. No longer do we need to chase a dream. We shall trust in what we feel inside and follow with an open heart, and all will be well.

Time to live in our truth!


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How We Help Each Other – The Connection

Soul Family And Their Importance On Our Journey

This is something I wrote in 2016 and found it in my journal only last night.  The words are supposed to be shared so here we go!

As I take this trip to Zagreb, I recognise the incredible support of my soul family and support team.  The network of this family is so wonderful, and many would not believe the intensity of the connections we share.  Between us, we are guiding and helping one another along in so many ways.  We all share different perspectives but have the same goal. To help others to break the chains that bind them.

As the various soul groups are refined or, for want of a better expression, guided to form a core team of Earth Angels – the personal effects of transition are gaining momentum.  We all have different skill sets and powers, and as we expand our consciousness, so do others too.  Each has their own unique connection with their divine counterpart – but fundamentally the state of our union is achieved within us, as well as at a higher level.

We are each fulfilling our lives knowing what we do is all about sharing our knowledge and wisdom with others.  There is no time for “fluff” as we all sense the urgency, as we see others floundering in a state of confusion.

Labels And Terminologies

Labels have a way of characterising everything we do or feel today.  This is the wonder globalisation and common standards introduced over the centuries.  This is a man made terminology and has been carefully programmed into the human psyche.  Labelling allows us to easily recognise certain situations but in effect, we are generalising everything in the same way.

As we awaken to the real truth of ourselves the significance of labels disappears.  We no longer require this pre-packaged way of being, we transcend the labels.  We are expanding our mind and body, by shattering the belief systems that we have carried all our lives.

The journey to our true core is a massive struggle for the psyche (ego-mind), which continually presents circumstances or situations that we have to deal with.  Detaching from ego allows us to properly digest all that is and to form a proper response.  The response comes from the new we have created for our self.

Focusing our energy on our own core centre or micro-cosmos allows us to feel what is important for us.  As we detach more from society, we feel more of our true self and core values.  The questioning of all that has been shown to us is being scrutinized and is slowly being prepared for eviction.

As we evict, we clear space for the new to move into its place.  The harder we work through the self-diagnostics, the sooner we can formulate the new.  There will eventually come a point when we say “I have done enough!” – and this is the point of change.

Point of Change!

As we reach this turning point, we can take a breather and reflect on our own situation.  It is then we begin to implement the new into everyday life.  Slowly old habits and templates do come back, as well as some repeating patterns.  We do ask ourselves “Why have these returned?”

At this point, we take another look at our self through new eyes.  We know the reason we have undertaken this transformation; it is far bigger than our own self.  As the repeat performances return, it is time again to delve into our core.  To again evict the “old” in affirmation of our new found self, and that a higher consciousness is here to stay.

This cycle will continue for the remainder of our lives, but, there is a distinct difference in how we process the “old ways”.  We are consciously aware of the triggers and reactions, therefore we can act before the lower vibrations gather momentum.  We treat the “old ways” with love, and sure enough, they disappear, as our own energy is so very powerful.

The ego-mind is integrated with our vessel – and will always remain part of us.  We begin to treat it with compassion, respect, and more importantly positive energy.  We shall acknowledge the ego is real, and embrace it within us, as it surfaces we greet it accordingly.  If we react instantly we begin to fuel the fire of the ego, and quickly it gains momentum.  As with all fires, they can be controlled or allowed to become wild fires – it is a matter of personal choice.

When we acknowledge our ego in the moment, we tend to shock it – but this is a tremendous reward for us personally.  Self-mastery at its early stages!

Looking For Answers!

The brighter we shine the bigger the shadows.  If we remain focused on our true self then the energy remains in our hands.  It is entirely an individual choice what to do with the shadows, living with them is the simplest course of action.  Processing them and treating them to a dose of love, so that we truly transcend them.T

There are millions of individuals who are waking up, and wondering what the hell is happening to them.  They are reaching out for answers, as they become afraid of their own inner voice.  In some cases, it is a time to head for the mountains and run away as far as possible – in effect hiding from the calling.

Detaching from the outside world in some way shape or form is part of the process also.  Each of us requires “our time” so we can integrate the new into our day to day living.  It is very difficult to create something new when we are surrounded by the same old things and ways.  Therefore some quality time for self shall be included on the way!  Almost everything we have learned or been shown to be true will be subject to scrutiny, and replaced with new.

Living in today’s fast moving world, we often make the excuse there is no time available for this type of work.  In reality, the purpose of this whole journey is to discover our “true self”.  Removing “what if” or “why” from our vocabulary is important!  Through the changes we make manifestation becomes a natural part of everyday life.  Soon we experience the changes on a bigger scale and in every part of our lives.

Self Belief!

Believing in what we are capable of and what we are feeling is crucial.  Trusting in our own abilities grants permission for our true inner essence to come to the surface.  Knowing for sure that we are on the true path of life, not the illusion we created previously.  Empowering our self in a way that we become the priority and focus – self-belief is born.

The path we are have chosen may seem a little daunting at the beginning, but soon it becomes a road, to a highway and then a super highway – the world is our oyster!  As the roads become wider so do our own abilities, and they begin to merge with others on a similar path.  This is where the magic begins to occur, as like minded souls connect, and shift focus on to more important matters.  We begin to take a different view on humanity and the course of mankind – we are here to make a difference, and now!

Whilst our journey is infinite, perhaps for the first time in our many incarnations, we finally get to witness the bigger picture.  Rose coloured glasses are off, and the brain is functioning on both sides.  Blank canvasses of creation come to our minds, and we begin to create the landscape for the future generations. This becomes our mission – sharing unconditional love with all that is and connect with.

Integrating Mother Nature in a new way allows us to truly appreciate a vision for a New Earth.  As other souls begin to open up and share similar thoughts, the grid begins to rapidly light up.  Pockets of super energy emerge that form a ring of loving energy across the globe, and beyond.  It is this perhaps we are striving to achieve – Oneness, Balance, Harmony and Peace.

New Agenda and Direction!

Our lives take on a new shape and purpose – it becomes more an act of service at an unprecedented level.  We will join together with other like minded souls, to create a myriad of multidimensional energies that is shared and spread across the planet.

As our purpose becomes more apparent in our consciousness we begin to feel an urge to step out of comfort zones.  We may do something controversial or out of the box – to society, we are crazy or suffering some form of mental illness.  Don’t allow society to dictate your path – it is yours to live and love as you see fit.

We are really at the beginning – we will walk paths with people we have known before, whether in this or other timelines.  Universal energies support us and as do our loved ones.   Spirit guides gather around in celebration of our achievements and encourage us to continue in love.  As the pace begins to quicken many may feel like they are hanging on the edge of a cliff.  It is time to let go and fly!

For those that are struggling to come to terms with their lives, in all honesty, you really have to grab the bull by the horns and stop the denial.  It is time to allow the inner God(dess) to come to the surface.  Step away from what is comfortable and known, and discover the true inner beauty and essence you are.  Actions speak louder than words, the time for procrastination is over, you are very much necessary and needed.

Help On Your Journey!

Throughout your journey, there will always be a support network to assist and guide you.  Together you will help each other navigate the seven seas, the highest mountains, as well as the darkest places.  Part and parcel of the process, that will end in mutually beneficial results for all.

When feeling a low vibration, it is normally better to keep it within and try to discover the trigger. Try not to tell the whole world, as this simply just transmits another low vibe to the masses.  Process it with your consciousness and treat it with love.  Love dissolves all lower vibrations, for that is the power of love.

Processing is part of the journey, which is a mammoth undertaking, especially in society today.  Why do you think there is so much “false hope and truth” floating in the air.  To keep you busy with other issues, and away from your own self. It is a lot of work, which is challenging and testing, but without the work, we will quickly return to the “old ways”.

If you are not prepared to do the inner work yourself, there is no magical cure, despite what is written to the contrary.  Should the work become cumbersome, it is OK to take a break to adjust.  We become brave, as bravery is an action that comes from inside.  Being brave is a selfish decision that shatters the ego, particularly when empowering self.

Bravery With No Medals!

There are no medals for this kind of bravery, just a new vessel and purity we have never had the pleasure of experiencing in the past.    This sensation is priceless, and the more we are able to fully enjoy the moment, the bigger the reward.  The best things in life are free and freedom! Unconditional love does not cost a single penny but lasts an eternity.  Today unconditional love is in short supply, it is the right time open the flood gates of love so we can flood the planet to create Heaven on Earth.

Shifting in consciousness is an inevitable part of our evolution.  Those at the forefront of the change recognise the impact on the way our future generations will remember this point in time.  Let’s make it a pleasant memory not a repeat of the same “old ways”.  Each of us has the power to create a change not only for ourselves, but others also.

I trust this piece enlightens some of you and helps in some way guide you on your journey.  Sharing the love with one and all!

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Temptations Galore!

Ascension Continues But The Reality Is Real Also!




Trying to figure out this journey is something that has challenged many for centuries, and this will remain the case for us also.  The mind and its complexity, especially for those more mature beings who have to transcend so much.  It is a daily task to stay balanced and not be drawn into the lower vibrations, and one that we will continue to endure.  We recognise there is no turning back as we are confronted with living in this confusing reality.

It is a journey, and a progressive one at that; the more we reveal it becomes clearer that our path is eternal.  It is fairly easy to reprogram a piece of software to form a new result or scenario – the mind is more challenging.  The challenge is always itself – we are always having to interpret what we feel or sense, as well as apply some logic.  We can pick up on energies that are very powerful, especially those higher vibrations.

As we navigate the new state of consciousness there is a swirling of energies in the air.  We can sense them like never before, almost like being surrounded by a radio transmission from space!  Yes, we absorb them and we begin to process the feelings and sensations at a whole new level.  Incredibly we are being presented with temptations in this reality, but our awareness is switched on.

It’s OK To Walk Away!


Walking away from a physical temptation, that would probably not have happened previously is an achievement.  Celebrate the success, not the analysis of what could have been.  There shall be no doubt in our minds about whether we have made the right decision or not.  Certainly, we can take the higher perspective – that it is all meant to be.  Our eyes and ears are open, and we are navigating using our heart and soul.

There has to be a time for adjustment, but don’t be afraid to fully explore new situations, we are human beings after all.  Staying in the moment and being as grounded as possible always helps.  Your GPS is alive and working perfectly, now it is retraining the driver (YOU) how to follow the signs.  There are many who are just going with the flow and signs, which is an achievement for this lifetime.

Dissolving away what ever needs shall clear the way forward for those things we are manifesting.  As we are the Masters of our own destiny, we shall have a clearer vision of where we are going.  We may not have the full picture, but an idea to guide us is fine.  Almost like a guiding star, taking us on the journey of trust and self-belief.  As our ancestors have done before, we shall connect with all aspects of Mother Nature, and give permission for her to guide us.

Relinquishing control of self may be an illogical or crazy notion for most to understand or get to grasps with.  In essence, that defeats what we have been shown as the way of life.  Allowing ourselves to fully surrender, is an ongoing mission – but now we get it and understand it.  The rest is now a process of maintaining balance in all that we do.

Daily Suggestions!

Make it simple and sweet!!  Allow yourself to truly connect with nature in a big way.  So many ask me how? Time is too short!  This is perhaps one of the simplest things to change instantly.  The time is yours to choose how you use it, so surely claiming 20 minutes a day for yourself is acceptable.  Once you make that assertion, take the time to walk in a park or by a river – it is possible to fit it into your day.  Switch off the phone, then just sit and watch what is happening, allow your senses to feel it all.

There is no need to listen to your favourite meditation, as nature is your music and performance.   Tune out the distracting sounds around you, and try to focus on the surroundings, and watch with an open mind.  The sounds will come from nature herself – whether from the birds and bees, or the blowing wind.  Practising this every day will allow you to have a new relationship with nature and yourself.

It is an ongoing process that requires self-discipline in the beginning.  Reprogramming the mind is something that won’t happen over night, as with the ascension journey, it is ongoing.  Once we have got to grips with the mind, we can begin to influence the way we live our lives.  We become less bothered, heated or stressed out…we become in harmony with our true authentic self.  Self Mastery

The more you are able to disconnect from society and reconnect with the planet, the clearer it will all become.  Many are not ready for this next phase of evolution, but there are a few who are and will continue to lead the way.  On the surface, a lot of “household names” are showing their true colours for all to see. What will transpire will be revealed in due timing, but the laws of cause and effect will play their role.

Your Truth And Your Journey!

These are yours and always will be, the path you are following is most definitely different and new.  Being part of the ascension process truly empowers the soul and vessel to reach new heights.  There are many who will not understand what we are doing, or even care for that matter.  Yes, we will be judged and labeled, but that is OK too.  It has taken a lifetime to realise the truth, it remains in our own power to add that little spark for others to see.

We are surrounded by our support network and new friends and family – these are the most precious aspects that keep us going forward.  Together, we can make the changes within our own lives, so that it will ripple outwards.  Signs and synchronicities all play their role in our lives, but in some cases can be a hindrance too.  Take them as they are intended, confirmations of your own state of consciousness.

As we move forward, we can see others are being guided towards us also; there is a cohesive effort in bringing like energies together.  When we have a large focal point of love and light, it has a lasting impact.  Never underestimate your own abilities or power.  True Love is a powerful energy that many run away from, as can be seen in many soul connections.  What remains between those connections, is a pure energy – unconditional love.

True love will always find a way to bring a happy smile, a euphoria, a utopia as well as a compatible energy to help on your journey.  Relationship templates are being shattered, and no doubt new ones will be created.  Perhaps we are raising the “standards” for all future relationships on this planet.  It is only society that has imposed how it shall be etc.  As we break the trends we release all stigmas too.

Enjoy What You Have Within!

Love transcends all things known to man – what we feel no-one else can say or determine, for that is our soul essence.  When you feel it, there is no definition or explanation – it simply is just the most wonderful feeling inside.  Now we can feel it within, imagine the possibilities – we are taking baby steps in this new found love energy.

It will take some time for us to really get in tune with it, there are no rule books for this – so it is up to each and every one of us to adjust.  When we are all aligned, can you see the possibilities?  We are the grid of love and light, and together we are raising the vibrations of this wonderful planet.  What is next is perhaps not for us to know, let’s just enjoy what we have discovered within, and let’s play like a child!

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