Fear of losing your connection!
Many of you are avoiding letting go of your connection – this is something that I and many others have been through and whilst each individual is unique, one has to really gather the strength from inside, and let everything go, to fully appreciate over coming fears. These fears are all based on our own insecurities and internal ego values. The questions you ask, what if, why and what will they think, what will they do – let’s spin it around for a second – are you going to continue to question your own feeling that is screaming at you? Are you going to say if only I could? Does it really matter what they do or think? Before you met this person what was your life like?
Before you had this relationship/connection, did you love others? and even more so, have you overcome similar situations in your life, and actually learned that there is a life to be lived? – I feel that you will answer that you overcame every previous relationship without too much suffering. You let it go – irrespective of the emotional pain, and mental suffering, and you are still alive and living. You wake up with your faculties in tact.
The same applies to a Twin -letting go is not about giving up the belief or feelings, it is about trusting the universe that you will reunite at some point, whether in this or another lifetime – your connection will never disappear, as there are many other ways of connecting with your twin, and whilst you may not believe this right now – when you do finally let go emotionally, you free up a whole new level of freedom.
Letting go is an essential part of self development and growth, it is an essential pert of the Twin journey – your feeling of love becomes magnified, as you become so much more in touch with yourself, your own reality – and as you become acquainted with the true aspects of a twin union, you will be so much more happy.
At some point you will have a whole new perspective of life, what is important, what is essential and most definitely what you don’t need – I, and many others who have embraced this journey are in a much better place, mentally, physically and emotionally than ever before in our lives – and once you are there interesting things begin to happen – as they are meant to – when you are at One, and in balance – your twin will have no choice but to joinn that equilibrium – they may resist it, but they will have lessons to complete – if they continue to resist, the same lessons will be repeated until the “Eureka” moment, when they begin to understand there is something extremely special happening.
The letting go is a hard decision to make as you are fighting your ego – the one thing you have relied on all your life – but remember that feeling when you met your twin? That was your heart and soul talking to you, and when you look back at your state of mind then, how happy were you, and how were you living? At the end of your work you will see your twin – take a visit and see them, without fear – and see if the same old feelings come back – if they do, then you will know for sure – and that is the feeling you are trying to create again.
If you would like one on one help please let me know I am happy to be your guiding light – but you have to be prepared to walk the path!